I am Sterkworks
I am Sterkworks. Sterk from the Dutch word Strong. Dutch because so far, the Netherlands is my favorite country I have visited. Works because added to Sterk, the URL was available.
I am a lesbian. But I never have sex, as I have spent years being a mother first, then an employee, then me. I am fixing that. I am exercising my tongue, just in case.
I am a good mother, and yes, if the only way I could have got pregnant was to sleep with a man, I would have done that. Of course, I would have had to be high or completely drunk. Luckily, the artificial insemination finally worked.
Hoping to start having sex again sometime after 2009, I need to start getting out more. I am starting that by having lunches with safe straight blogging friends. Remember, I fear I will be agoraphobic in my later years, so even that is a big step.
My ex-partner of ten years, who I broke up with nine years ago, still calls me three times a year to tell me how much she loves me and that we need to be together. She abuses drugs and alcohol, and I don’t think her husband would approve. Yuck. That was a relationship that went on for seven years too long.
I love sushi.
I am smart, but haven’t been able to take the risks necessary to get a few things I want. Being a single mom, my first thought is always to take care of my daughter.
My senior year of high school, I won the Utah state LDS seminary scripture chase championship.
I’m agnostic.
Did I mention I love sushi?
I have major crushes on Tina Fey and Rachel Maddow. Ahhhhh. Bliss.
That is about it. And by the way, for all of you Mormon or ex-Mormon folks, that would have been a pretty good presentation at a testimony meeting. So, ISTTITNOJC, Amen.
Filed under: Life Lessons, History, Humor, Lesbian, Blogging, Mormon


Most sex is overrated. Sometimes it can be good, but meh. My peak was half my lifetime ago, so it’s great if I can get it, but fine if I don’t.
I agree with you about Tina Fey. She’s smart and cute. I’d hit it. That Rachel Maddow chick looks like I guy I used to know though. Sorry. It’s weird that I find myself attracted to Tina, because I tend to like them young. I think the only girl in my age bracket that I’ve always considered hot is Alyssa Milano.
I’ve never been a Mormon. I didn’t even really know what a Mormon was until I moved to Utah. Despite what the church might claim, people outside of it simply don’t notice it, or only give it the most passing of thoughts as some polygamous cult. It’s not nearly as big as they say, and it’s steadily losing membership all the time. The rise of the internet, with its capacity for the exchange of information, is killing religions like Mormonism because their foundations of deceit and intolerance were shaky to begin with. People are starting to know.
I have no idea why I typed all of this. I’m in a mood I suppose.